Tinfoil Hat – Mind Control and Coercive Psychological Systems

Matt Lindgren, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, notes that “Domestic Violence Can Make You Feel Crazy”:

Domesic violence goes by many names, including intimate partner violence (IPV), spousal abuse, domestic abuse, and child abuse.

Many perpetrators of domestic violence try intentionally to make their victims doubt their own judgement and sanity. They try to make excuses for their behavior — possibly blaming it on drugs, childhood abuse, or stress at work — anything except taking full responsibility themselves.

Most perpetrators of domestic violence are able to behave in dramatically different ways with partners and the outside world, which suggests they have far more control over their actions than they would want others to know. When confronted with law enforcement, perpetrators can switch on a dime from being cruel, vengeful — if not homicidal, to being friendly, amusing, calm, and reasonable. They want you to believe they are not in control, when the vast majority of them are completely in control of their actions.

Actions include:

• Social Control — not allowing victim contact with friends, family, community, or children
• Emotional Abuse — threats of violence to victim or children, insults, put-downs, and attacks
• Economic Deprivation — not allowing victim access to money, food, education, or other resources
• Threats of Aggression or Sexual Violence, Intimidation
• Stalking
• Indirect physical aggression — destruction of property, throwing objects near victim, harm to pets
• Direct physical aggression — hitting, kicking, biting, shoving, restraining, throwing objects, rape, murder
• Sexual Abuse or Sexual Assault — including use of force to compel participation in sexual acts, intimidation to perform sex, use of drugs to have non-consentual sex¹

Repeated exposure to extreme negative input may result in “battered person syndrome,” a post-traumatic stress disorder. Divorce Net writes:

According to Dr. Lenore E. Walker, the nation’s most prominent expert on battered women, a woman must experience at least two complete battering cycles before she can be labeled a “battered woman”. The cycle has three distinct phases. First is the tension-building phase, followed by the explosion or acute battering incident, culminating in a calm, loving respite — often referred to as the honeymoon phase.^{2, 3}

According to Wikipedia:

The term “battered woman syndrome” was coined by American feminist and psychologist Lenore Walker. In 1978-1981 she interviewed 435 female victims of domestic violence. She concluded that the violence goes in cycles. Each cycle consists on 3 stages:

• Tension building stage, when a victim suffers verbal abuse or minor physical violence, like slaps. At this stage, the victim may attempt to pacify the abuser. However, the victim’s passivity may reinforce the abuser’s violent tendencies.
• Acute battering incident. At this stage, both perceived and real danger (of being killed or seriously injured) is maximal.
• Loving contrition. After the abuser discharged his tension by battering the victim, his attitude changes. He may apologize for the incident and promise to change his behaviour in the future.⁴

Divorce Net also reports on studies that found four general characteristics of the syndrome: the victim believes that the violence is his/her fault, the victim has the inability to place the responsibility for the violence elsewhere, he/she fears for their life and/or children’s lives, and the victim has an irrational belief that the abuser is omnipresent and omnisient. Wikipedia relates:

Walker used the Martin Seligman’s theory of learned helplessness to explain why many battered women do not leave their abusers. In Seligman’s experiments, rats repeatedly suffered electric shocks without being able to escape them. After this, they did not attempt to escape a shock even if they had such a possibility. According to Walker, females who are repeatedly battered produce similar psychological responses.⁵

Jeffrey L. Edleson examines a problem endemic to domestic violence in “Mothers and Children: Understanding the Links between Woman Battering and Child Abuse”:

[Studies] suggest that in 32% to 53% of all families where women are being beaten their children are also the victims of abuse by the same perpetrator. A small but growing body of research also suggests that children who witness domestic violence, but who are themselves not physically abused, may suffer social and mental health problems as a result.⁶

Parent against parent can have devastating effects on a child as Wikipedia reports:

Stanley Clawar and Brynne Rivlin have claimed in Children Held Hostage: Dealing with Programmed and Brainwashed Children that many forms of mind control are used in parental alienation by one parent against the other parent using both parents’ children as unwitting weapons. Parental alienation often forces children to choose sides and become allies against the other parent. Children caught in the middle of such conflicts suffer severe losses of love, respect and peace during their formative years. They also often lose their alienated parent forever. These consequences and a host of others…follows them into adulthood by creating a chronic condition known as Parental Alienation Syndrome.⁷

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Related links

¹ Matt Lindgren, “Domestic Violence Can Make You Feel Crazy,” at http://matthewlindgren.com/specific-populations/Oakland-domestic-violence-therapist.html (retrieved: 11 February 2012).

² Divorce Net: Family Law Information, Solutions, News and Community, at http://www.divorcenet.com/ (retrieved: 7 February 2009).

³ “Cycle of abuse,” Wikipedia.org, at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cycle_of_abuse (retrieved: 12 June 2011).

⁴ “Battered woman defense,” Wikipedia.org, at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Battered_woman_defence (retrieved: 7 February 2009).

⁵ “Martin Seligman,” Wikipedia.org, at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martin_Seligman (retrieved: 7 February 2009).

⁶ “Mothers and Children: Understanding the Links between Woman Battering and Child Abuse,” Minnesota Center Against Violence and Abuse, 1995, at http://www.mincava.umn.edu/documents/nij/nij.html (retrieved: 7 February 2009).

⁷ “Parental alienation,” Wikipedia.org, at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parental_alienation (retrieved: 7 February 2009).

Related videos

“Domestic Violence, The ‘Jerry’ Miranda Story,” video at Google Video, http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-3786229059227211869 (retrieved: 7 February 2009). (Watch it here)

Related books

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